[ she gets it, that there are things that she'd better not ask about, at least not for a long time.

hopefully there will be a long time in which he'll come to terms with some of it can talk about it, not even necessarily to her, of course! just... talk about it. for now, they have immediate things to focus on. ]

Ha. Thanks, I do appreciate both the confidence and the consideration.

So, let's go looking. You lead this time.

[ ... so if there are areas he'd rather avoid, he doesn't have to explain. ]